Instead, it reframes it as a search for containment in a chaotic world — a crush on the idea that someone has their life together and still has time to care about yours. Want to explore further? Watch: "Maudie" (2016), "Paterson" (2016), or any interview with Keanu Reeves. Then ask yourself — is it a crush, or just longing for someone to ask, "How was your day?" and mean it.