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Sadie Hawkins energy is the antidote.

It was a gimmick. A reversal. But for a young trans femme trying to navigate a world that didn’t have a map for me, the metaphor stuck. In the early days of my transition, the fear of rejection was a physical weight. The expectation was always that I had to wait—wait to be approached, wait to be “chosen,” wait to see if a potential partner was okay with who I was . I spent a lot of energy being passive, terrified that if I made the first move, I’d be met with violence or disgust. sadie hawkins tgirl

It’s not about running through a field in a burlap sack. It’s about claiming space. Sadie Hawkins energy is the antidote

By Jamie